Struggling (and succeeding) with Submission and Surrender

For this discussion, we will be examining submission and surrender, and taking a closer look at the obstacles s-types encounter in submitting and surrendering to a master/mistress/owner/dominant and the barriers the M types encounter in accepting and honoring submission and surrender. We will look at a few different paradigms for constructing and organizing M/s, O/p, and D/s relationships, and discuss what might best facilitate joyous submission, surrender and/or alignment of wills for each of us (because there is no one size fits all in this world).  We may also discuss speed bumps along the way in sustaining successful submission and/or surrender long term.