Will you walk into my parlor? Said the Spider To The Fly

The poem by Mary Howitt, published in 1829, tells of a cunning Spider who ensnares a naïve Fly through the use of seduction and flattery. The poem is a cautionary tale against those who use flattery and charm to disguise their true intentions. Looks like Mary was struggling to find the right partner too!

In an age of online profiles and photoshop, it can be difficult to know what you are getting into. Are you the spider or the fly? In this slightly interactive and highly entertaining lecture we will explore what matter to us, discover your hard YES! and practice how to communicate it effectively. Whether you are seeking your Unicorn, newly returning to the dating/courting world, or simply hoping to meet someone, this is the workshop for you!

Open to all. Be prepared to interact.